Human mind and heart is really so complex. Since childhood I always drew my diagrams well in biology including that of a heart but somehow I always failed to understand its nature. Today knowingly I did hurt someone I love the most because my heart was not being able to hold the tears anymore but strangely even after hurting him it was me who landed up in tears because it was that same heart which was telling me that what I did was utterly wrong and inhuman. I really don’t know how the same heart spoke two different things within few minutes. But I realised one thing i.e.. when we hurt our loved ones knowingly or unknowingly, we actually hurt our own self the most. I know he got pain but I got more pain imagining what he was feeling right at that moment. And to be honest enough I believe there is no point in apologizing after hurting because apologizing is not a medicine for hurting to heal..
So based on my experience I will suggest my friends not to hurt your close ones even by mistake, even if your heart is instructing you to do so because ultimately the same heart will blame you and hurt you for hurting them.. Just go and tell your loved ones “I LOVE YOU” and hug them tight as that is the only thing which will make you and your loved ones smile even with a drop of tear around the corner of the eye.
“don’t hurt, just love”