Month of F.R.I.E.N.D.S.H.I.P


August is one such month which always indicates Friendship. In our teenage we always waited for August to come as we used to be over excited about celebrating the International Friendship day on the first Sunday of August. The friendship day was a very joyous, fun filled day in our lives in which we exchanged friendship bands, chocolates, gifts etc. That was the day friends became even better friends, that was the day when many friendship just started and lots more. To us friendship meant playing with eachother, fighting at times, sharing tiffin, discussing about crushes and heartbreaks.

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BUT, today at this moment, standing in my early twenties I realize that friendship has no months, friendship was something beyond just friendship bands, sharing of chocolates, playing etc. The depth of friendship is clear to me now. Friends are such person in life who is with us each minute, each second.
Friends not only give us memorable moments to cherish but also act as a pillar when we face the darkest shades of life. They are our most wonderful treasure. Even when the world refuses to be with you a true friend stays beside. At times we mistakenly make friendship with wrong persons and as a consequence we feel friendship is bad but the truth is persons are fake but friendship cannot be..

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So I feel the month of friendship is january, february, march, april, may, june., july, august, september , october, november, december..

OOPs !! I guess no more month is left…….
Cheers to friendship and all friends across the globe 🙂

Hurting hurts !!!


Human mind and heart is really so complex. Since childhood I always drew my diagrams well in biology including that of a heart but somehow I always failed to understand its nature. Today knowingly I did hurt someone I love the most because my heart was not being able to hold the tears anymore but strangely even after hurting him it was me who landed up in tears because it was that same heart which was telling me that what I did was utterly wrong and inhuman. I really don’t know how the same heart spoke two different things within few minutes. But I realised one thing i.e.. when we hurt our loved ones knowingly or unknowingly, we actually hurt our own self the most. I know he got pain but I got more pain imagining what he was feeling right at that moment. And to be honest enough I believe there is no point in apologizing after hurting because apologizing is not a medicine for hurting to heal..

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So based on my experience I will suggest my friends not to hurt your close ones even by mistake, even if your heart is instructing you to do so because ultimately the same heart will blame you and hurt you for hurting them.. Just go and tell your loved ones “I LOVE YOU” and hug them tight as that is the only thing which will make you and your loved ones smile even with a drop of tear around the corner of the eye.

“don’t hurt, just love”