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Love or Career ???


This is my first post in new year. You all might wonder why I suddenly took up this strange topic for blog, but trust me like me I am sure many are back there on the other side of laptop having the same question on mind.

My new year started real well with the love and warmth of husband and blessings for elders. But unfortunately on 2nd I had one of my most emotional , confused, sad day as my husband left for another continent on that day. Since I started working in august 2014 so I decided not to join my husband right now and stay back to continue working.

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But when I reached the airport to say goodbye to husband, trust me I could not control my tears. That was the moment when I first regretted with my decision of staying back. I realised how much more important love is in our life. We may have prestigious job , money etc but when you don’t have a person to hug after returning home, your life is no less than hell. My husband always told the days gone will not return so we should utilize the days totally and flourish our career, I feel same like him but with little difference ie. .days gone will not return so we should utilize the days totally and love our loved ones as much as possible.

Its true career is of huge importance specially when you are in the growing phase of life but I guess simultaneously staying with your loved ones, caring for them, loving them is also of utmost importance and pleasure too.

So the entire day I thought whether I took the right decision or not and I basically came to the conclusion that maybe in this situation LOVE IS THE WINNER…………. Though I dont know whether due to circumstances I can leave my job and choose love but would request each of you that iff you are having a chance do choose love. You wont regret ..

You all may have different perspective, so feel free to share here. Also leme know if you feel the same. Till then enjoy 🙂

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Long Distance Relation……


Long distance relation seems like a phobia to many but those who are in long distance relation knows the real pleasure latent in it.. I myself being in a long distance relation know how beautiful it is.. the best features about a long distance relation are :

1) you can feel your partner each moment as you miss him/her always.
2) each time you see him/her you feel excited just like the first sight.
3) after waiting for a long long time when you get to hug and kiss him/her you feel like heaven on earth.
4) inspite of the 1000 miles between you both , you know a person is with you each time, his/her heart is beating in love with you.
5) you make eachother feel real special by sudden “I LOVE YOU”, “I MISS YOU” messages.
6) each time you see other on skype/ facetime you forget all your worries and tension of the day.

ETC.. ETC.. ETC.. ETC..

So you all can see how beautiful long distance relation can be.. Those of you who are not in a relation just because it can be long distance trust me and get into it.. I am sure you will love it..

But yes there are two major things which form the foundation of the long distance relationship ie.. TRUST (you have to else relation will end in a minute) and NO-INSECURITY (if you feel insecured I am sure you cant continue that relation for long)..

As you can see long distance has lots and lots of happiness , so just be in one and enjoy….

Cheers to all long distance lovebirds !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

“DISTANCE IS JUST A NUMBER WHEN LOVE IS TRUE”….

LESSONS FROM LiFe !!!


Today I want to share with each one of you 5 most important learnings which my life taught me in these years. Since its my birthday tomorrow ie 2nd october and this year is a very eventful year in my life so I want to share the most important lessons.

The major 5 lessons are:
1) Being honest always gives immense joy even if it creates problem initially.

2) Keep loving a person without expecting in return BUT love that person who will atleast respect you or be grateful to you for your love, even if he/she does not love you back in return.

3) Keep working hard and with honesty because may be not today or tomorrow but surely someday you will get what you deserve.

4) Have faith in God, if not God then atleast believe that there is a supreme force/power which can do anything and everything so firmly believe in God or that supreme power and be assured that you will get whatever is meant for you to be.

5) Trust others , may be people will take advantage of that but still keep trusting because it may happen so that you loose a dear one just because you did not trust him/her.

Hope these lessons will help many of you to gain a happy loving life..