1 lie > 100 truths, love, care??


I know you may find this topic to be quite bizarre as I usually don’t write posts about such topics . But I wanted to write on this particular theme from a very long time .

Many a times during my discussion with my friends or near ones I heard that they are not being able to trust their loved ones anymore inspite of knowing how much love still exists between them .Many years back I remember myself lying to one of my close person and how from that very moment the person kept doubting me forever . I found this very strange always. I always thought that if I know ‘someone loves me truly’ then even if he/she lies for one time it won’t matter much rather I thought everyone must feel the same way. But some months back I myself underwent a phase where I caught one of my loved ones lying to me. And very  astonishingly it was not very easy for me to accept as I thought it would be . And just like others I couldn’t trust the person blindly anymore like I used to do previously. But I know why the person lied to me and how much that person loves me but still somehow at the back of my mind the thorns of the lie keeps pricking. And at times no matter what beautiful things the person does for me, I am not able to trust anymore . At that very particular moment I feel whatever the person is doing for me is all fake, even maybe the love is fake .. That one lie makes me forget thousands of beautiful moments that the person gifted, the love that the person showered on me or the care which that person continues to exhibit.

Does this mean one lie is more powerful than love, care and hundreds of more truth?

This is one question which I am sure many of us have felt in life in some point of time or the other. Many of us have not found the answer to it yet. But somehow I myself tried to find this answer and from my point of view I felt our minds attract the negatives more than positive. And since being matured persons we use our brains more than our hearts, so we like to believe the lies more than the deep truth which is known to the heart. I guess if we would have paid a little more heed to heart instead of mind then surely love, care and truth would have been the winners instead of lies..

I know it’s easy to say but difficult to follow but still would request all of you to give it a thought as it might save many relations from breaking and may help build the blossom of love once again..

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Keep loving and keep being honest !!!

 

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Love or Career ???


This is my first post in new year. You all might wonder why I suddenly took up this strange topic for blog, but trust me like me I am sure many are back there on the other side of laptop having the same question on mind.

My new year started real well with the love and warmth of husband and blessings for elders. But unfortunately on 2nd I had one of my most emotional , confused, sad day as my husband left for another continent on that day. Since I started working in august 2014 so I decided not to join my husband right now and stay back to continue working.

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But when I reached the airport to say goodbye to husband, trust me I could not control my tears. That was the moment when I first regretted with my decision of staying back. I realised how much more important love is in our life. We may have prestigious job , money etc but when you don’t have a person to hug after returning home, your life is no less than hell. My husband always told the days gone will not return so we should utilize the days totally and flourish our career, I feel same like him but with little difference ie. .days gone will not return so we should utilize the days totally and love our loved ones as much as possible.

Its true career is of huge importance specially when you are in the growing phase of life but I guess simultaneously staying with your loved ones, caring for them, loving them is also of utmost importance and pleasure too.

So the entire day I thought whether I took the right decision or not and I basically came to the conclusion that maybe in this situation LOVE IS THE WINNER…………. Though I dont know whether due to circumstances I can leave my job and choose love but would request each of you that iff you are having a chance do choose love. You wont regret ..

You all may have different perspective, so feel free to share here. Also leme know if you feel the same. Till then enjoy 🙂

Long Distance Relation……


Long distance relation seems like a phobia to many but those who are in long distance relation knows the real pleasure latent in it.. I myself being in a long distance relation know how beautiful it is.. the best features about a long distance relation are :

1) you can feel your partner each moment as you miss him/her always.
2) each time you see him/her you feel excited just like the first sight.
3) after waiting for a long long time when you get to hug and kiss him/her you feel like heaven on earth.
4) inspite of the 1000 miles between you both , you know a person is with you each time, his/her heart is beating in love with you.
5) you make eachother feel real special by sudden “I LOVE YOU”, “I MISS YOU” messages.
6) each time you see other on skype/ facetime you forget all your worries and tension of the day.

ETC.. ETC.. ETC.. ETC..

So you all can see how beautiful long distance relation can be.. Those of you who are not in a relation just because it can be long distance trust me and get into it.. I am sure you will love it..

But yes there are two major things which form the foundation of the long distance relationship ie.. TRUST (you have to else relation will end in a minute) and NO-INSECURITY (if you feel insecured I am sure you cant continue that relation for long)..

As you can see long distance has lots and lots of happiness , so just be in one and enjoy….

Cheers to all long distance lovebirds !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

“DISTANCE IS JUST A NUMBER WHEN LOVE IS TRUE”….

soo short story (seven)…


She loved monkeys so she called her most loved ones as “MONKEY”. Maximum people felt offended and misunderstood her. They failed to understand her love.
But an year later she wrote “MONKEY” to someone and HE replied “LOVE YOU MRS.MONKEY”.

She realised from the bottom of heart that finally she found her monkey of dreams 🙂