1 lie > 100 truths, love, care??


I know you may find this topic to be quite bizarre as I usually don’t write posts about such topics . But I wanted to write on this particular theme from a very long time .

Many a times during my discussion with my friends or near ones I heard that they are not being able to trust their loved ones anymore inspite of knowing how much love still exists between them .Many years back I remember myself lying to one of my close person and how from that very moment the person kept doubting me forever . I found this very strange always. I always thought that if I know ‘someone loves me truly’ then even if he/she lies for one time it won’t matter much rather I thought everyone must feel the same way. But some months back I myself underwent a phase where I caught one of my loved ones lying to me. And very  astonishingly it was not very easy for me to accept as I thought it would be . And just like others I couldn’t trust the person blindly anymore like I used to do previously. But I know why the person lied to me and how much that person loves me but still somehow at the back of my mind the thorns of the lie keeps pricking. And at times no matter what beautiful things the person does for me, I am not able to trust anymore . At that very particular moment I feel whatever the person is doing for me is all fake, even maybe the love is fake .. That one lie makes me forget thousands of beautiful moments that the person gifted, the love that the person showered on me or the care which that person continues to exhibit.

Does this mean one lie is more powerful than love, care and hundreds of more truth?

This is one question which I am sure many of us have felt in life in some point of time or the other. Many of us have not found the answer to it yet. But somehow I myself tried to find this answer and from my point of view I felt our minds attract the negatives more than positive. And since being matured persons we use our brains more than our hearts, so we like to believe the lies more than the deep truth which is known to the heart. I guess if we would have paid a little more heed to heart instead of mind then surely love, care and truth would have been the winners instead of lies..

I know it’s easy to say but difficult to follow but still would request all of you to give it a thought as it might save many relations from breaking and may help build the blossom of love once again..

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Keep loving and keep being honest !!!

 

Love you “Tilottama”


Happy New Year to all my readers. Firstly I apologize for being so irregular in posting in my blog.

In this new year I am expecting and planning lots of changes in my life so I thought of posting something different this time.

Below is a letter to my city Kolkata. For those who don’t know much about Kolkata let me tell you in brief that Kolkata is a city in a state named West Bengal in country India. Its also known as “CITY OF JOY”. Its a highly populated yet fun and festival loving city. People of this city are known for their warmth and affection. Many great personalities of the world were born in this city like Rabindranath Tagore, Satyendra Nath Bose, Satyajit Ray and many more.

Here goes the letter with a little picture of Kolkata clicked by me.

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Hope you all enjoyed reading 🙂

Gift for Parents !!


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What can be a better gift for your parents than your own drawing !!!

3rd May was the anniversary of my parents so I decided to gift them something special instead of regular gifts from store, so I decided to gift them a painting of my own. Thanks to google from where I got idea of this painting. I remember during my childhood I always made cards for them but as I grew up due to excess pressure of studies I could not make it for them any more. So this year when I have little time in hand after my job I decided to draw once again. To make it more special I framed it so that it can be with them forever.

You can also gift your dear ones something made out of your own hands as that involves your feelings and touch much more than expensive or ready made gifts from stores.

Go ahead and bring smile on lips of your dear ones.

P.S the signature named “munai” in the picture is actually mine as my nickname is munai 🙂

Love like Nottinghill @ Nebraska !!


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This is one of the pictures clicked by my husband and edited by me which is deeply treasured by me.

Whenever I look at this picture I somehow get transfixed due to its beauty.

This picture always reminds me of Anna and Williams and its beautiful garden chair from the movie Nottinghill. I always feel this is a perfect chair for the couple madly in love to hold their hands and cherish the scenic beauty.

I wish when I and my husband will become very old and come almost to the end of our life then will sit on this chair, gaze into eachother’s eyes and recollect all the little and sweet memories which we stitched together..

What say?? Isnt it a nice and romantic idea??

I feel after looking at this picture many of you must have thought like me.

enjoy!!!

soo short story (eight)…


One fine evening She suddenly turned into a thief.

But People didn’t call the police rather applauded and congratulated when she stole.

He also happily and blushingly allowed her to steal.

This time she stole his sirname just like He stole her heart two years back and the two thieves lived happily ever after..

P.s its my little story of life 🙂 ❤

Three cheers to love !!!


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From tomorrow the month of love is going to begin, so I thought let me also start the month of love with one of the most special clicks by me. You might wonder what is so special about this picture, the speciality is that this was clicked by me during my honeymoon trip.

Rose, redwine and your partner in your arms !!! what else can you ask for…..

Cheers to love and all lovebirds of the entire world on my behalf ….. enjoy this season of love and indulge in lovey fun….

Love or Career ???


This is my first post in new year. You all might wonder why I suddenly took up this strange topic for blog, but trust me like me I am sure many are back there on the other side of laptop having the same question on mind.

My new year started real well with the love and warmth of husband and blessings for elders. But unfortunately on 2nd I had one of my most emotional , confused, sad day as my husband left for another continent on that day. Since I started working in august 2014 so I decided not to join my husband right now and stay back to continue working.

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But when I reached the airport to say goodbye to husband, trust me I could not control my tears. That was the moment when I first regretted with my decision of staying back. I realised how much more important love is in our life. We may have prestigious job , money etc but when you don’t have a person to hug after returning home, your life is no less than hell. My husband always told the days gone will not return so we should utilize the days totally and flourish our career, I feel same like him but with little difference ie. .days gone will not return so we should utilize the days totally and love our loved ones as much as possible.

Its true career is of huge importance specially when you are in the growing phase of life but I guess simultaneously staying with your loved ones, caring for them, loving them is also of utmost importance and pleasure too.

So the entire day I thought whether I took the right decision or not and I basically came to the conclusion that maybe in this situation LOVE IS THE WINNER…………. Though I dont know whether due to circumstances I can leave my job and choose love but would request each of you that iff you are having a chance do choose love. You wont regret ..

You all may have different perspective, so feel free to share here. Also leme know if you feel the same. Till then enjoy 🙂

ADIEU 2014…. Love you !!


2014 !! 2014 !! 2014 !!

This is one such year about which no matter how much I speak it will be less.

This was that year of my life for which I waited since childhood. Though it may be boring for you all to read this post as it captures only the special moments of 2014 from my life.

This year basically turned me not only into a complete independent women but also a women with all the happiness of the world.

I would like to keep it short regarding why 2014 is a special year for me. Firstly because 2014 january was the month when I was engaged to my fiancee.

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Next in the month of April I had my first international trip i.e.. to New York City (trip of a lifetime) that to for an international championship by an world famous MNC like IBM in the field of computer science, where I was even awarded the position amongst top 6. will surely write an entire post about this trip and contest later. This trip will always be extra special because this was my first international trip with fiancee, we really had the most romantic and best time.

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Thirdly this year june I graduated with my engineering degree with Information Technology as major.

Fourthly it is again 2014 july when I received my first job offer from IBM and astonishingly at a much prestigious post than expected. Finally I joined the company in August.

Then lastly comes the one of the most special and significant event of my life i.e my wedding bells rang in the first week of december. I became Mrs. Rakshit from Ms. Sengupta. My prince sweeped me off my feet and took me to the world of love and care forever…………

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Hence you all can see how important, worth cherishing, worth loving year it was for me… I just pray and hope that next year becomes as special as it was this year..

Wish you all a very HAPPY AND PROSPEROUS NEW YEAR !!!!! Keep smiling, loving and ofcourse keep blogging 🙂 ❤

lots of love………………

T.I.M.E P.A.S.S


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You all must be wondering what is this !! 😀

Let me tell you this is nothing but just what I did to pass time in my office when I was not in the mood to work.
I was just drawing little objects and then I decided to write few quotes on them.

What ever was coming to my mind right then I started drawing them on a sheet of paper..

P.S SMR is the short form of my husband’s name which you will find in the heart drawn :p

P.P.S the object with tail is a cat, which I am sure you didnt understand before I mentioned 😉

Enjoy this piece of handwork and try out the same when you are free…………………..