Forsaken ..

In 21st century depression is not a very unknown word. Both urban and rural , adults and kids all are victims of depression nowadays. Out of hundreds of various causes, loneliness is the root. In our life Loneliness became our friends at some point of time or the other. I always felt that our hearts have the tendency of reminiscing the person who thrashed us with the loneliness , rather than the person who gifted us the strength to overcome it. We often forget that the love and care of certain angelic person makes our life worth living, when we actually started to dive into the dark side of life.

During my conversations with my friends and with my own personal experience I felt we are more addicted to pain and loneliness so we often end up remembering the person who is the cause of it.

But somewhere I believe this life is too short to remember all dark shades of life , so we should embrace the person who bought light into our lives and spread the happiness all around .. love the person who loved you when others didn’t and love the person who needs you beside when they are lonely..

#sayno to #loneliness #depression

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1 lie > 100 truths, love, care??

I know you may find this topic to be quite bizarre as I usually don’t write posts about such topics . But I wanted to write on this particular theme from a very long time .

Many a times during my discussion with my friends or near ones I heard that they are not being able to trust their loved ones anymore inspite of knowing how much love still exists between them .Many years back I remember myself lying to one of my close person and how from that very moment the person kept doubting me forever . I found this very strange always. I always thought that if I know ‘someone loves me truly’ then even if he/she lies for one time it won’t matter much rather I thought everyone must feel the same way. But some months back I myself underwent a phase where I caught one of my loved ones lying to me. And very  astonishingly it was not very easy for me to accept as I thought it would be . And just like others I couldn’t trust the person blindly anymore like I used to do previously. But I know why the person lied to me and how much that person loves me but still somehow at the back of my mind the thorns of the lie keeps pricking. And at times no matter what beautiful things the person does for me, I am not able to trust anymore . At that very particular moment I feel whatever the person is doing for me is all fake, even maybe the love is fake .. That one lie makes me forget thousands of beautiful moments that the person gifted, the love that the person showered on me or the care which that person continues to exhibit.

Does this mean one lie is more powerful than love, care and hundreds of more truth?

This is one question which I am sure many of us have felt in life in some point of time or the other. Many of us have not found the answer to it yet. But somehow I myself tried to find this answer and from my point of view I felt our minds attract the negatives more than positive. And since being matured persons we use our brains more than our hearts, so we like to believe the lies more than the deep truth which is known to the heart. I guess if we would have paid a little more heed to heart instead of mind then surely love, care and truth would have been the winners instead of lies..

I know it’s easy to say but difficult to follow but still would request all of you to give it a thought as it might save many relations from breaking and may help build the blossom of love once again..

Keep loving and keep being honest !!!

 

Lie is right between Believe !!

” You are the one I loved but You made my heart bleed,

   You are the one about whom I cared but You made my tears slid..

You are the one I adored but You made my soul lonely,

You are the one I fought for but You touched me and lied so calmly..

You are the one to whom I surrendered all but You made me feel ditched,

You are the one who made me feel so lonely even after we were hitched..

I will never detach from You its true

But I cant love you like before which was as pure as a drop of dew..”

                                                                                      ———— Shahini

 

One thing I realized very well i.e.. one lie is much more powerful than hundreds of truth. One lie makes you forget all the love, care and affection that the person showered on you, Because the day you discover that the person lied to you then all his love and care becomes a question mark !!!

Please never lie to your loved ones ! Never ever ! The truth may hurt your loved ones but it wont make a permanent crack in their heart for sure !!

Be happy, be honest !!

 

 

 

Message for the World !!!

After the shocking and disheartening incident in Paris I want to share a little picture clicked by me with a little message for the world….

Words Spoken Harshly are more Painful than Prick by Thorns !!

” Words spoken harshly are more painful than prick by thorns”

I felt the above mentioned quote very deeply so I decided to share a picture of thorny tree which was clicked by me near a  beautiful lake in Omaha, Nebraska, USA named Zorinsky lake.

The picture and quote courtesy “me” 🙂

Quacky Happy Family !!

Clicked by me in Omaha , Nebraska, USA..

soo short story (nine) !!!

She loved to sleep for long long hours..

Her parents thought she was ill.. Her peers thought she was lazy..

She knew it was only during her sleep , that she met “HIM” in dreams , held “HIM” tightly and loved “HIM” as much as she could.

Mother Birdy !!

Two little eggs  beside my window on the nest,

Watching fluffy mother birdy lay over it was the best.

 

So much love and care was sparkling through the eyes of mother birdy,

That it made me think of my own baby.

 

I opened the window pane just for fun,

But the caring mother birdy started twists and turns.

 

She looked ! as if with her I was in a state of war,

But I failed to explain “I wont harm coz i too am a would b mother !!”

 

I finally closed window for mother birdy to forget fear and rest,

Once again in my heart I realized Mothers are always the best …………

“This poem is dedicated to all mothers and would-be mothers of this world..”

This poem was written by me a year back when I went for a short trip in one of the famous tourist place of India and there was a nest as right outside the window pane of my hotel room. I watched the mother pigeon throughout the entire afternoon as I was super excited to see the nest and eggs so closely.. The love, care and warmth exhibited by the bird inspired me to write this poem.. Hope you all enjoyed it !!

P.S don’t copy this poem without permission.

Gift for Parents !!

What can be a better gift for your parents than your own drawing !!!

3rd May was the anniversary of my parents so I decided to gift them something special instead of regular gifts from store, so I decided to gift them a painting of my own. Thanks to google from where I got idea of this painting. I remember during my childhood I always made cards for them but as I grew up due to excess pressure of studies I could not make it for them any more. So this year when I have little time in hand after my job I decided to draw once again. To make it more special I framed it so that it can be with them forever.

You can also gift your dear ones something made out of your own hands as that involves your feelings and touch much more than expensive or ready made gifts from stores.

Go ahead and bring smile on lips of your dear ones.

P.S the signature named “munai” in the picture is actually mine as my nickname is munai 🙂

Behind every successful Women there are two Men !!!

Firstly I would like to say a very HAPPY WOMEN’S DAY to all the lovely, elegant ladies all across the globe. Women were, women is and women will forever be the symbol of strength, love, care, elegance, beauty and intelligence. Women according to me are the finest and most divine creation of God who makes the world an even more beautiful place. Just like flowers women also enhances the beauty of the society with its ability to love, to fight against odd, to care for all, to forgive, to praise others. My mother is the first women of the society in my eyes who makes me feel proud to be a women, Who is a real example of a perfect woman in my life. But today on this special day I being a successful women of the society would like to take the opportunity to show my gratitude towards the two most important men of my life, for whom today I am successful and complete Women of the society. You may feel that on women’s day why am I praising men !! The reason is ,, one of the biggest traits of a perfect women is show to respect and gratitude to the one who deserves it , no matter whether that person is male or female . Now let me tell you who are those two person : The king aka My Dad (Avijit Sengupta) : The person whose hand I held and started walking, whose hand I held and started moving towards my goal. My dad worked day and night just so that I can grow up and touch my dreams. He always believed a girl is no less than a boy so he always gave me the freedom like a boy. He is the one who was always by my side during my each and every decision.He is always my biggest strength. I am basically the princess of my dad and trust me he will forever be my king. I know thanks is not a word which can be applied for dad so would like to say “DAD I LOVE YOU. ITS BECAUSE OF YOUR HARDWORK THAT I AM HERE TODAY”… The prince aka My Husband ( Sushanta Mohan Rakshit) : He is one such man who came into my life not a long time back but he showed that for turning life into heaven you need just a minute. Today I am standing here is just because of his support. I wonder what I would have been without him. He is the one who not only makes me a complete woman but made me a successful woman. He stayed awake nights after nights just for me so that I can stand tall in front of the world. And trust me I really stood as one of the most successful woman in a world championship in  front of the whole world just because of him. To me my husband is like fresh oxygen. He really made me fly like a free bird in the vast sky without putting any restrictions for me. So I would like to say “I LOVE YOU DEAR HUBBY FOR MAKING ME THE COMPLETE WOMAN”.. I received these two roses for Women’s day from a shop today, so I would like to dedicate these two roses to my dad and husband… I hope many of you feel the same like me… I hope you people enjoyed reading my post.. 🙂 keep smiling..